Don't Be Shy

when I was a child during art lessons arrived, Mrs. teacher asks each child to sing in front of the class. We hid under the table with very fast heartbeat, trying to avoid a turn. We feel ashamed. As a teenager, Dad and Mom says:? You are a disgrace the family alone!?. When entering young adulthood, during college professors who are dealing with very intelligent. He knows we do not understand the abstract formulas of written in board. He asks:? Who do not understand? ? We fell silent. Silent. Embarrassed if friends found out we are stupid. And. When it is completely mature, we sat in the hotel for a great training from a trainer. When the trainer asked:? Father, Mother, please, if anyone wants to ask ... We fell silent. Shame. Cook, rank managers ask the question why so dumb. Then told us to say; Throw away the shame. Because it will hamper your success! Is this true?

A pious who loved his people said: The shame is part of faith ? In other words, one's faith is not perfect if the people who claim to believe it has no shame. Now the choice there is in you, whether you want to be successful in your career, or become believers with faith intact? If you want a successful career, throw away the shame of yourself! If you want to be faithful, fertilizer and turn the shame in you! Easy, right? But really should we be? Are not faith and success can go hand in hand?

We often throw the teachings of the normative way. Maybe because too be affected by the air of hedonism, where the material becomes the most dominant benchmark. Our lives, judged from the type of car driven. Grandeur of the house in which we live. Label the clothes we wear. Degree attached to our name. And position or rank attached in our shoulder. Miraculously, we believe that if we are ashamed, maybe not all that we can achieve. Hence, why we should be ashamed to do this and that. Why do we have to confront the shame here and there. Right and left elbow. Take. Claimed. Scooped. Anything. So that in a moment, we can get everything. Why should be ashamed?

? Throw away the shame. Because it will hamper your success!? Shame as what we ought to throw away? Embarrassed to ask misguided street, he said. Thus, shame may have to throw it. Because, if embarrassed to ask we will get lost. Could be yes. Can not. You, if you already have the GPRS facility; no longer have to ask. Will never get lost again, really. You, if you've got a great personal assistant; why still have to ask? Simply you say to him: I do not want to know how, but you have to do this for me!?. Tomorrow morning, the results have been neatly on your desk that luxury. Still you should ask? If you are ashamed to appear in front of the crowd to a speech quality, why dizziness. Just ask your employees hold a contest to find someone similar to you, and tell him to speak in public for you. Do you still need a sense of shame?

The shame of it is part of our faith. What does the prophet say this? Please, Do not associate a matter of shame in faith! Well, we stop all this crap up here. But before that, let us consider the following points. A believer would feel ashamed if she can not offer good work for a company that paid her. A believer would be embarrassed if her ability is lower than peers who work in the same responsibilities, paid the same, given the same facility, and treated equally. He was ashamed to let him continue to lag. And he was embarrassed, if asking for a raise even though he knows: he has not worked up to the company. A man of faith, shame if misusing facilities and the opportunities he got. A believer shame, if you use the power to squeeze its suppliers. And a believer shame, if you have to take something that is not right.

The basis of shame that; a believer, in the present work will certainly peak performance. And by the basic shame; a believer will realize that asking a task himself who do not know a thing. Embarrassed him, if later on after training, knowledge and abilities is absolutely no additions. So he must be earnest in doing whatever be their responsibility. A boss who believe in shame if all the errors attributed to his men. What is the function of supervisor if so? A child is the fruit of faith, shame if its existence did not cause things easier for the boss. What can I use a subordinate if so? A colleague who believe, be ashamed if his presence did not cause his friends in the team helped. And a faithful employee, embarrassed him, otherwise to his duties neglected. An employee who is believed to be ashamed if he entered the office is always late, and used to come home quickly. And employees who believe will be ashamed if the spent long hours to have lunch with desert in the form of chat that is not frivolous. He will be embarrassed as well, if after wasting hours of work that stayed up late at the office for the company to pay overtime wages. And those who believe will be embarrassed if squander the opportunity to be promoted. So that he would exert every effort, in order to have a much better quality than other friends. So that later, if there is a higher office vacancy management not hesitate to select them for promotion. Because,? Shame it was part of the Faith.

We can be believers who succeed, right? Sure you can. Because it turns out, the Prophet designed the concept of shame in faith to ensure that his people really succeed in life and in death. In live with shame, we are guided to become individuals who excel. And unreliable. Eligible to be a big responsibility. Deserves to be a role model. And deserves to be a place where others attain enlightenment. In the dead with shame, we leave traces of humble. To be listed by the angel as a virtue. For the cornerstone, why he deserves a reward from God.