Not everyone accepts or believes positive thinking patterns. Some people consider positive thinking nonsense, and some laugh at people who believe and accept positive thinking patterns. Among those who received a positive mindset, not many people know how to use this way of thinking to get effective results. However, it can be seen that as more and more people are becoming interested in this topic, as can be seen from the large number of books, lectures, and courses on positive thinking. This topic has gained popularity quickly.
We often hear people say: "Think positive!", Which is intended for people who feel disappointed and worried. Many people do not take seriously those words, because they do not know the true meaning of these words, or consider it useless and ineffective. How many people you know, who has time to think about the power of positive thinking?
The following story illustrates how the power of positive thinking works:
John apply for work, but her confidence is low, and he considered himself unworthy failure and success, he feels confident that he will not get the job. It has negative thoughts towards himself, and believed that the other candidates were better and more qualified than him. John acquire this attitude because of a bad experience he gained from a job interview that he had followed before.
His mind was filled with negative thoughts and fears on the job for one full week before he will be interviewed. He believes he will be rejected. On the day of the interview he got up late, her fears came true. He found he was wearing a shirt that will be dirty, and the other should be ironed shirt. And because he was late, he decided to wear a wrinkled shirt.
During the interview, he was tense, indicating a negative attitude, worried about his shirt, and felt hungry because he did not have enough time for breakfast. All these things lead to distracted and difficult for him to focus on the interview. His attitude overall cause bad mistake, and as a result her fears become reality and not getting the job.
John also apply for the same job, but he react differently. He felt confident that he will get the job. One week before the interview, he often visualized himself to obtain the job.
The evening before the interview he prepared the clothes he would wear and sleep earlier than usual. On the day of the interview he woke up earlier than usual, so he has enough time to have breakfast, and then arrived at the interview before schedule.
He earned the job because he thinks positively of the things he did. Of course, it also meets the requirements to obtain a job, as well as us.
What can we learn from these two stories? Is there a magic that is used in the story? No, everything is natural. If we have a positive attitude, attitudes will generate positive feelings, constructive images, and we will see in our mind's eye what we want. This will shed light, more strength, and happiness. You yourself will also radiate kindness, happiness, and success. Even positive thoughts will also provide a variety of benefits for your health. We walked up and our voices more authoritative. Body language we show our feelings.
Positive and Negative Thoughts Contagious
Each of us affects the people we meet, either directly or indirectly. This happens instinctively, in your subconscious mind, which is emitted through your thoughts and feelings, as well as our body language. People around you can sense our aura and are affected by our thoughts, and vice versa. Is it common if we want to be around positive people and avoid negative ones? People are more motivated to help us if we are positive, and they dislike and avoid anyone being negative.
Thoughts, words, and negative attitudes and actions will result in a negative mood and unpleasant. All this will lead to failure, frustration, and disappointment.
Practical Instructions
To change your mind to be positive, it takes practice and a willingness to change yourself because of the attitude and mindset can not be changed in an instant.
Consider the following topics, think of the benefits you will get and invite yourself to try it. The power of the mind is a powerful force that is always shaping our lives. Formation process is usually done in the subconscious mind, but it is entirely possible to make a conscious process. Although the proposal sounds quite strange; try to do it, because you will not feel the loss; otherwise you will get a lot of things. Ignore any other people's opinions about you when you change your mindset.
Always visualize a situation favorable and beneficial for you. Use positive words in your inner voice or when you talk to other people. Smile a little more, because the smile will help you to think more positively. Ignore feeling lazy or desire to quit. If you persist, you will change your mindset.
When a negative thought enters your mind, you have to beware of them and replace those thoughts with more constructive thoughts. Negative thoughts will try to enter your mind again, and once again you have to replace them with positive thoughts. As if you two pictures in front of you, and you choose to look at one picture and ignore the other pictures.
If you suddenly feel the resistance from within you when you try to change the negative thoughts, do not give up. Keep yourself focused on positive thoughts and fun.
Regardless of your current situation, try to think positive. Think of the results and situations that benefit you, and things will change according to your mind. This change of course takes time, but eventually the change will occur.
Another method you can do is to do affirmations repeatedly. Affirmations is a visualization method resembles, more creative, and both can be used simultaneously.
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